Guys, my bfs really selfish, how do i make see that?!?

If this was 4 years ago, I would think you where talking about me lol... But anywho what worked for me was a good sit down! Take a few days, and write down all you feelings and thoughts on this matter so that when you talk about it your not stumbling on things to say... But after that, just invite him over and sit him down, try not to get pissed off and keep it chill. Just let him know how your feeling and how it is affecting you on your every day needs. If hes a real man, he will open his eyes and see what hes doing to you, and make the change. I hope this help, anything else feel free to hit me up!